well you have to be more relaxed about it, if you stiffen up too much, then the head will always be there, try to let it develop out of a conversation and just touch the other person's pants every now and then first.
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well you have to be more relaxed about it, if you stiffen up too much, then the head will always be there, try to let it develop out of a conversation and just touch the other person's pants every now and then first.
It's all about swallowing another guy's pride and joy :tongue:Quote:
Originally Posted by Kip2june
The real courage is making that call / contact with a guy and the walking through the door.
Once you are in the company of another man you both know what you both there for.
When you take his cock in your mouth you'll wounder what all the fuss was about
Like so many others, I’ve wanted to experience anything and possibly everything with someone else that has a cock. I especially want to suck one and swallow, but alas will probably always chicken out!
I'm in my mid fifties and have been thinking about it for about 10 years. I'm worried about STDs. Everytime I get close to meeting a guy; I shut it down. Any advice on getting over the fear?
I was in Juvenile detention as a kid. I was always getting in trouble. The guards at night would pull us out and rough us up in attempt to be at the fight out of us.
One night a guard pulled me out and took me to the basement. When we got there, I saw another guard. They made me strip naked and threw me into the padded cell.
Later that night they both returned and made me suck them. They told me either to suck them or they would fuck me in the ass. That was a lie as they took turns spit-roasting me. I was furious at first but after they returned me to my cell and knowing I had to keep the secret, it excited the 15 year old horny kid. It happened several times after that and I never said a word.
So, I had no choice or time to think about sucking my first cock, it was decided for me. I'm not bitter though, because because being in control of my own sexuality has opened many doors for me and brought me sexual pleasure.
I can relate to so many of you. I have fantasized about sex with a man for years, especially about receiving anal but sucking also. But being married, in my community and with my circle of homophobic friends there has never been an opportunity. Unless I am not picking up the signals. At my age it will probably never happen but would love to be in a situation to at least see if I could/would sick a cock.
18 months after I posted this, I found the right man, with the right cock, in the right situation, got down on my knees, and sucked his cock like a pro until he was cumming down my throat. If you want it bad enough, it will happen for you.Quote:
Originally Posted by licyou69
I am a married, closeted bi guy, 55. I fantasized about sucking a guy for many years before I got up the nerve to do it. I hade been thinking about it since my mid 30s. I was always worried about STDs and was I going to hate what it tasted like. I did not suck my first cock all the way till just a a couple years ago. I have a married fwb who I hade been meeting with 4 or 5 times a year for a couple years. He loved sucking my cock and some times I would suck him a little but never all the way. I liked how his cock felt in my mouth, his precum tasted great but I was still nervous to go all the way. After a few years of us meeting one day I just told him I wanted to do it and to not warn me when he was going to cum, I told him to just shoot when he was ready. I went down on him and took his load, swallowed it all. Afterwards he went down on me and I was so turned on after sucking him off I hade one of the biggest orgasms' of my life. It was fantastic and the first thought that came to mind was, why did I wait so long to do this.
I wasn't necessarily afraid to suck my first cock, I was more worried about anyone I know finding out that I sucked cock. I CAN'T have my wife finding out or family/friends.
I would lose the desire to meet up after I cum too. Now I resist the urge to cum if I know that I'll be meeting anyone.
Im still worried about getting found out, but my urge to suck a big cock is getting too strong to resist.
I went through this as a teen. You do me I’ll do you type thing. As an adult it was about finding someone who I could play with in secret so it wasn’t going to out me. Then I found guys don’t really care and if you are in the right place you can find a few dicks to suck. Some guys spit some swallow some just suck then finish by jerking. I’m a swallower. Nothing to fear if you like your dick sucked and you like to cum without interruption you know what’s going to happen. Just find someone and try it. If you don’t like it then don’t do it again.
just if you jerk off while blowing him DONT cum first it you may lose your desire and end up leaving him hanging. For a long time I was that way if I came first I was done. Now it dosent matter. I might need a couple of mins to come down to finish him, but I have no problem finishing him. After a while it became all about the cum. It’s something special going about my day with someone’s cum in my belly or my ass. It’s my little intimate secret that only he and I know about.
Well after starting this thread more than 3 years ago I finally sucked a cock and swallowed cum in April of 2024. Did it again a few times, then took a break for a while. I was not so crazy about it as I never get hard when sucking. I think I was too excited, and concentrated.Quote:
Originally Posted by DLazguy
Just sucked another cock after a six month break which was my 7th cock. Now I love it more than ever, and was almost getting hard while doing it, and after he shot his cum in my mouth I kept his cock in my mouth for at least a minute and did get hard then. I was naked in the forest on my knees. LOL
I think I love cock, and love cum even more.
My problem too. I am only looking for married guys who want a BJ. Getting better at finding them now.Quote:
Originally Posted by licyou69
What has helped you find them? That's what I'm looking for as well. Just trying to minimize risks...Quote:
Originally Posted by Kip2june
The first one wasn’t an issue, as I knew him exceptionally well and we were both exclusive, just graduated and had a summer of fun exploration and kind of as much “love” as on can have at 18 before we both went off to colleges on almost opposite sides of the country. The second one was the scary one, just met the guy at a party the 2nd month of college, he was older, invited me back to his place, not familiar with what he liked, was looking for, and after making out in his living room and him stripping me down, he asked me back to his room, I sat on the edge of his bed and un-did his pants, he was a bit bigger, didn’t have the cute little curve my ex boyfriend had, kissed better though, I took him in my mouth and was still freaking out! Was I doing this right? According to my knew friend, it was ok, but he guided me with a few tips finally eased my nerves. I ended up spending the night, and the walk of shame the next day had me so paranoid I hit the student clinic, asked for all of the tests, was told I needed to wait on a few, stressed out for about a month, ignored his calls and pages(it was the 90’s) finally got a clean bill of health, and rea
out to the guy only to find it was now my turn to be ignored.
Wow. This is the kind of first-time story that guys who haven't sucked cock yet wants to avoid. The thing is that you won't ever know what's going to happen until you start doing it and it doesn't help that when you do it for that first time, you become paranoid and of a mind that everyone who sees you knows what you did last night. It can "take a while" for a guy to realize that, um, no - everybody not only doesn't know what I did, they don't even know who I am! Some guys relax after this and it's on to the next cock to suck while some guys remain paranoid and, often, to the extent that the people who do know them are asking, "Dude, what the hell is wrong with you?"Quote:
Originally Posted by Footstep40
The last thing a guy coming home from this situation wants to deal with is people asking him questions he (a) doesn't want to answer or (b) is going to tell a big fat lie to explain why he's acting weird. Just know that a lot of guys have their very first time and... none of this shows up to mess with him so, new guys, learn from stories like this but remember: Just because it happened to someone else isn't a guarantee that it's going to happen to you.
Now, go ye forth and suck cock!
Indeed! My first time led to a summer of love and joy. Second time I was unfamiliar with my surroundings, partner, and worst of all myself. As I became more aware, I became more comfortable and less concerned about “what others said or were more likely not thinking”, which can be hard. Becoming more comfortable with yourself is truly when you realize it’s perfectly ok, and you blossom into your true self. I felt like a gigantic weight was lifted, and I enjoyed possibly some of the best sex ever, as I was completely comfortable in my own skin, and was able to relax and enjoy it, became pretty good at it too!
So good to see that you [obviously] recovered from that moment! I read that it wasn't so much that the guy you were with "did you dirty" in your encounter but, yeah, you wake up the next morning, there's a naked guy lying next to you and, fuck, the reality of what y'all did slams into you and evokes the reaction you had. Some guys... don't recover from this reaction. New guys, learn from Footstep40's moment and the part that starts with "As I became more aware..."Quote:
Originally Posted by Footstep40
Go ye forth and suck cock and have fun doing it!
I can't remember if I get hard while I'm sucking. I DO get extremely hard watching video of me sucking. I can't wait to a hard cock in my mouth again.
Sniffies.com is a game changer…just used their free version first, now have paid. It is great at finding guys, especially if you are near a populated area. With paid you can post what you are looking for and you get a lot of responses……So I will post something like the following.Quote:
Originally Posted by mwmcumslut
Need a married guy to come to my hotel room and cum in my mouth. Or need a married guy to come to my room…let me lick and suck your cock until you cum on my mouth.
I had been fantasizing about sucking cock for years before I got up the nerve to connect with another guy. The meet up was going really well, with lots of stroking and nipple play. I was really turned on but a still nervous about sucking his cock, wondering if I would like it, would his cum taste good or awful, would I be grossed out. I just let the moment takre me and dropped on my knees and took his cock in my mouth. All that anxiety was for nothing. I loved the feel of it it in my mouth. A little later, while I was stroking him, he indicated he was about to cum. I hesitated briefly, until I saw the first drop of cum appear at the end of his cock, and then just went for it. Took him as deep as I could in my mouth, sucked and tongued his cock, while his cum spurted into my mouth. It tasted great!
Not me I sucked my cousin off then swallowed his nut. We traded blowjobs for years after that.
I was never afraid to suck my first cock. . I was bi-curious and had already let a man, a complete stranger, give me a hand job in a straight porno theater when I was 22 (this was in 1976). I knew I liked having my cock touched by a man but I wanted to see what it was like to touch another man's cock, take it into my mouth and find out if I liked sucking cock or not. I was living in LA and was very concerned about someone I knew seeing me so I decided to go to SF and visit a bathhouse there to have my first experience giving a BJ.
It was a weekday morning and I entered the bathhouse, paid my money and was given a towel and a key to a private room. I went to the room, took off my clothes and headed out to explore the bathhouse and hopefully hook up with a suitable man. I went past the shower area and came across the sauna. I decided to go in and found it empty. I sat for a while by myself and after about 15 minutes or so I was pretty hot and sweaty so I decided to go back to the showers and get cleaned up. After I washed I decided to head back to the sauna.
This time the sauna was not empty. There were two men in it. One at the far end of the sauna and one sitting on a bench just inside the door. I decided to sit down next to the man sitting on the bench just inside the door. Out of the corner of my eye I could see that he was touching his cock. The man at the other end of the sauna could see this and decided to leave. I wanted to let the man sitting next to me to know that I was interested in him so I put my hand down to my pubic hair and moved my hand back and forth, careful not to touch my cock. As soon as I did that the man put his hand on my back. That was all the encouragement I needed. I got up from the bench and moved in between his legs. His cock was semi hard and sticking out. I reached out with my left hand and started to gently stroke his cock. It was very large, thick and cut. It felt amazing to actually be touching another man's cock for the first time and feeling his cock get harder and longer in my hand As much as I enjoyed touching his cock I knew I wanted to take him in my mouth so I moved in closer, closed my eyes and took his cock into my mouth. I began to move back and forth on his cock, gently sucking him and paying special attention to the very large head since that was what I enjoyed most when a woman would give me a BJ.. I knew immediately that I could do this, that I didn't hate it and that I actually really liked having him in my mouth. I could feel his cock getting bigger and harder as I sucked him. The idea that someone could come into the sauna and see me giving this man a BJ crossed my mind but I was so into what I was doing I decided I didn't care if someone came into the sauna and saw me sucking this man's cock.
This went on for about five minutes and then the man said we should go to his room. He had become fully erect by then and his cock was about eight or nine inches long and very thick. I said OK and told him I was only interested in giving him a hand job or a blowjob. I wanted him to know I was not at all interested in him fucking me. He said that was fine and off we went to his room.
When we got to his room he laid down on the small cot that was provided. I knelt at the side and leaned over his waist, reached for his cock and resumed sucking him.. After a short time he asked me to lick and suck his balls and he spread his legs so I could move in between them and have access to his balls. Like his cock, his balls were big.. I licked and gently sucked on them for several minutes, slowly stroking his cock as it leaked precum while I was exploring his balls with my tongue and mouth. His cock and balls had a very strong musky masculine smell that oddly really excited me.
I wanted his cock back in my mouth so I started licking and sucking his cock again. I decided after about 15 minutes of this that I wanted to make him cum so I stared sucking his cock with a faster rhythm, paying extra attention to the large mushroom head with my tongue while sucking him. I had one hand on his cock and I cupped and gently rubbed his balls with the other hand. He was breathing harder now and his cock was leaking a constant stream of pre-cum into my mouth. Tasting his pre-cum got me even hotter because I knew he was getting closer to climaxing.
All of a sudden he took both his hands and put them on the back of my head. I sensed that this meant he was about to cum and that he intended to cum in my mouth. I wanted to see what it was like to have a man cum in my mouth so I kept on with my sucking. I felt his cock getting even harder and a few seconds later I. felt his cock spasm and I could feel the pumping motion of his cock ejaculating his cum into my mouth. There were about four or five really good spurts. It was a big load, very thick and very very tasty. I continued sucking until he stopped cumming and swirled the cum around in my mouth before finally swallowing it down. I quickly realized that having him cum in my mouth was something I really liked and that I would want to do this again with other men. The man took his hands off of my head. He thanked me and told me I gave a very good BJ and i left..I could taste and smell his cum for hours afterwards and was glad that I did because it was a great reminder of what I had just done for the rest of the day.
Little did he know that he was my very first BJ and cum swallow.
+1 on all the "Just do it" comments. I'm also pretty sure you'll be really good at it, too. The first time I sucked a guy I was really worried that my lack of experience would be a problem, but I can assure you that it wasn't & my Top complimented me afterwards.
I hear ya. I don"t want to take chances either because I am married.Quote:
Originally Posted by awibiguy
I go to adult stores that have private booths. Preferably with a glory hole. I only suck with a condom. Not the best but I can feel a cock in my mouth so it works for me.
Sniffies.com is an awesome site you can use anonymously and for free to find guys who want to be sucked. I only look for married, and less active guys who only want to be sucked. That way I can sort though those I want to suck and those I don't. Mostly I don't want them because of them being too active. Then you have to count on about only 15% actually showing up. That is another story.
the first time i was creeped out by it, in high school my friend went to the music room alone... he pulled his dick out and asked me to suck him, i got soo creeped out... i decided to suck his dick, when i put it in my mouth i started liking it... i started sucking him until i made him cum.... after that i wasnt scared anymore it felt normal..
I felt more afraid of my first man kiss. I had no idea if It would turn me on or if I would be repulsed by it. I am happy to say I loved it! As for cock sucking, I had already received a few blow job's from guys so returning the favor was easy.
Never had the chance, but if and when I do I will be really nervous.
When your ready you will know!
Dont push it or let anyone else push you into doing it.
It will happen when it is supposed to and trust me...
You will love it and wonder why it took you so long to try it
Good luck
Wish adult stores in my area had booths. As far as I know; they no longer exist.Quote:
Originally Posted by ct_sounder